In the sea of various dating options, it’s easy to get lost and forget what you actually want to achieve. For a TS date to go well, there are various things that need to happen first, but we’re not here to talk about your typical dating tips. We’d like to discuss how you could best put technology to good use, and figure out ways to increase the odds of meeting the right person as you browse the web.
#1: Building Your Online Presence
In this digital world we live in, it’s kind of tough to go with the times without transferring a part of our lives online. That part is undoubtedly dating, especially for a community that faces discrimination in the offline world. The good thing about the digital is that you can create an online presence that will draw visitors to your pages for all the right reasons – your talent, beauty, flawless taste, and edgy nature that set you apart from the rest of the world. Facebook, Instagram, Snapchat, and to some extent Twitter can help you build a following of people who will come to your pages because you inspire them, calm them down during turbulent times, and show them you can do whatever you want when you set your mind to it. Choose a hobby or two and create an Instagram page where you’ll post stunning photos and cheeky captions or stories about how and why you enjoy photography, designing cards, swimming 5 times a week or cooking the most relatable meals with an extraordinary twist. In time, you’ll build a base of followers who appreciate everything you do, and there is no doubt that among them you’ll find a bunch of new friends, and more than a few love interests.
#2: Blogging About Your Passion
If you love fast cars or are passionate about painting, start a blog about your hobby and attract like-minded people to share your ideas and experiences. Write from the heart about anything that is on your mind and related to your interests coupled with sharp photography and a few videos here and there. People will recognize your honesty and your warmth, provided you showcase a positive outlook on things because people don’t want to read negative stuff. Put your thinking cap on and build a blog that serves you a clear purpose – to escape everyday problems interfering with your chill, and create an outlet where you’ll go to be the best version of yourself. People will eat it up, and your base of followers will just keep on growing, making it that much easier to handpick someone for TS dating you.
#3: Dating Sites and Apps
Mind you, building a comprehensive online presence doesn’t mean you should kiss dating sites and apps goodbye. Not in the least bit. TG personals of most sorts will help you narrow down your search instead of browsing through thousands of users who may not be into the same things you are. If you haven’t tried Tinder yet, download it right now and give it a shot. It may cater to the community of singles from around the world, with people looking for all sorts of partners, but at least everyone (or almost everyone) is looking for a partner, which can’t be said of the people who follow you on Instagram, for instance. In addition, find a suitable TS dating site where you’ll feel most at home, and use both Tinder and a small niche-specific site to increase your chance of meeting the right kind of person. Treat your profiles like you would treat your blog, with lots of love and care, updating it regularly with engaging content and stunning pictures of you and everything you stand for.
#4: Ask People Out
The point of all these platforms is to attract people who like you or something about you they find relatable, inspiring or motivational. Once you attract them, be proactive, get to know them, interact with them on a regular basis, and you’ll see there are some of them you think are cute, datable, and even breathtaking. Shoot them a message commenting on something you know both of you like, chat them up, and suggest to meet and talk more about the things that the two of you share. Sure, you can wait for someone else to take the first step, and it sure may be more romantic that way, but if you go after what you want, people will love you even more!