Contrary to popular opinion, cougars are not some sixty-plus divorcees looking for a casual fun with a boy toy. Actually, mature women are looking forward to numerous aspects of a cougar-cub relationship these days, from amazing sex to long-term companionship. Therefore, if you have decided to join the cougar dating club, here are types of guys you should look for if you want to have a successful dating experience.
The ambitious go-getter
If you are not looking for anything serious but still want to be treated like a queen, this type of guy is perfect for you. He is confident, driven and has to be the best in everything he does. Although he is young, he is extremely ambitious and already on his way to a successful career. This guy is charming and knows how to wine and dine a lady, and he will spoil you with fancy gifts and romantic dinners. Nevertheless, because of his ambitious nature, he is often involved with several people at the same time. If you are not a jealous type and you want to have fun, go after this guy. However, keep in mind that these guys are attracted to confident women who know what they want and are not afraid to go after it, so work on your self-esteem.
The artistic type
He is vulnerable, creative, misunderstood and underappreciated and all of these things make him incredibly sexy. You will be his muse, and what woman doesn’t want to be the object of great poetry or a remarkable painting. Being his inspiration will make you feel desired and sexy, which is exactly what the doctor prescribed. However, keep in mind that this guy has only his talent to offer. He is probably broke, so don’t count on fancy restaurants unless you are paying.
The lovesick puppy
If you want to be admired, adored and treated like the center of his world, this is the type of guy for you. He is not afraid of talking about his feelings since he is in touch with his feminine side and he will be invested in your relationship more than any other kind of cub. On the other hand, he will need a great deal of emotional support and you will find out that deep down he is really insecure.